Greetings, Erlinda.
In response to your comments, I too am also a target for that familiar question.
My great-grand-father, and all the way back, in Arandas, and Jesus Maria, Jal., and the region sorrounding Lagos de Moreno, was also tall, and fair-haired, and fair-skinned.
He was the first to marry a mestiza.
Not until my father married a Mexico City Spanish- blooded descendant, did I come out fair-skinned,and such.
I get treated injustly, sometimes, by the Mexican people of mestizo descent. It is very hard, not to have some degree of animosity towards them, as I can never seem to regain any of their trust.
It is certainly a constant battle. I get treated very well, in general, by the Anglo-American populace, but in trying to relate to my Mexican heritage, and culture, I am often at a disadvantage.
I'm second generation Mexican-American, I speak, read, and write very well, and I still can't get a decent, fluently spanish convo. out of a Chicano, or, immigrant Mexican person.
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